Having friends that you can rely on whenever you have problems or share your aspirations in life is truly a blessing. By looking at your friends, you can tell who you are because friendship is created by people who have the same interests and outlook on life. Bringing that special bond to another level entails trust, love, and of course, time. Knowing how and when to spend time and make priceless moments with friends is another thing to discover.
Make a plan of at least one bonding moment every month
Friends that bond together stay together; it is true for all people who treat their friends as an extension of their families. Doing this is easy when young, but as people grow older, they have to work and have to attend to the needs of their families. Maintaining a regular time to spend quality time with friends at least once in a month keeps the bond you have with one another. Paying a visit to each home is also an excellent plan to get attached to your friend’s family as well.
Make regular meet-ups after work or during weekends
Maybe a chat in a coffee shop or a night out to try the newly opened bar in town is a simple way to make everyone informed and updated by the latest twists and turns of their personal lives. A moment like this is essential because it fills up space in our hearts that only real friends can feed.
Target places to travel
Going on a trip is one of the common friendship goals of many. Travelling allows you to get to know your friends better, like the things that they fear, food that they don’t eat, or adventures that they haven’t tried. Through this, you may help them overcome their fears, or encourage them to do the things they don’t usually do with the assurance of not letting them down. You may also learn about different cultures that highlight the value of friendship and see how it applies to your circle.
Participate in volunteer work
Encourage one another to engage in some productive activities like volunteering for some organisations that promote collective action for specific causes, like Frontier Gap Years. Aside from the time you have to spend with one another, you can also see their willingness to share what they have with others. If you can see them enjoying helping people, then suggest to them to make it as a regular bonding moment among yourselves.
Invite them over for family gatherings
Inviting your friends over to your house to celebrate family occasions gives them the responsibility of taking care of your family also. Allowing them into your family makes them feel that they are essential to you. And also, it will build trust between your friends and your family, so they feel secure whenever you are with your friends.
Moments in life that are unforgettable and valuable give a great feeling of assurance that we are loved, we are good, and we are somehow blessed with not just a family, but also with people that genuinely see our worth as their trusted friend.